Manzamo and Cape Zanpa

During our recently staycation (see post below), we stopped at two scenic spots – Cape Zanpa and Cape Manzamo. Okinawa is blessed with a beautiful, rugged coastline, and there are lots of ‘capes’ to go visit. Usually there is a lighthouse, and in some cases a beach nearby. In this case, there were goats!

The first stop, Cape Zanpa, in Yomitan, is a pretty spot to go peer at the ocean, and Zanpa Beach is right next to it. But the thing that everyone with kids likes the best is feeding the goats carrots. I don’t know why there is a small goat enclosure at the cape, but for ¥100 you can buy a cup of carrots to feed them. Little kids just love this. But I have to say, goat’s eyes really freak me out.

Cape Manzamo, a bit further up the coast, is a real icon of Okinawa, due to the unusual rock formation that locals believe looks like an elephant’s nose. The limestone cliffs are very beautiful, as is the untouched reef hundreds of feet below. Beware though, there are lots of tour buses pulling up at Manzamo, and it was a bit crowded on the weekend.

The iconic elephant’s nose


The snorkelling here must be great! Perhaps no access? 


Lifestyles of the rich and famous… on a pension

It’s been eight months since I’ve been on a plane. For me, that’s a new record. While living in Hong Kong it seemed that we were jetting out as often as possible. But since moving to Okinawa, we’ve just sort of stayed put and nested. I guess that is a good sign, that we don’t feel the constant need to fly OUT of the place where we live.

Nonetheless, I still get ‘hot foot’ and want to venture out. So this weekend past, I tried out the concept of a ‘staycation’. You know – taking a vacation in the place you actually live. And Okinawa being such a big island has a lot to offer in terms of places to explore and stay for a night or two.

So I booked us into a ‘pension’. That’s the Japanese word for guest house. Nothing fancy, but nice enough. Tatami room and kitchen. No meals, not on the beach front but close to restaurants and beaches. Seemed like a fine place to spend one night while exploring the coastline around Onna.

By sheer coincidence, a friend told me her and the family were staying in that area too for the weekend. But not at a pension. Oh no, quite the opposite. They were staying in the incredible and huge Renaissance Hotel. Private beach. Dolphin shows. Banana boat. Multiple restaurants. Room service. Gift shop. Macaws perched at various locations in the lobby (really!). Indoor and outdoor pool. A big, proper resort.



So, we snuck in for the day, essentially, to meet up with these friends. Enjoyed a great lunch. Went down the waterslides in the pool. Took advantage of all the amenities. As we left, a giant white stretch limo pulled up to deliver some guests. Sigh!

Checking into the pension – after seeing the lap of luxury at Renaissance – was like letting all the air out of our balloon. Don’t get me wrong, it was perfectly fine, and clean, and comfortable, but it’s like comparing champagne to box wine. By evening we were so tired anyway, we pretty much just crashed for the night, and checked out the following morning.

Deciding to stay on the theme of pretending to be rich and famous, the next morning we paid $10 to spend the day at the beautiful Intercontinental Hotel, because Manza Beach is within the hotel grounds. As we walked onto the beach, my daughter looked around and said quietly, ‘Wow, I feel like this is my home’. Even at the age of three, she has figured out how to enjoy the finer things in life! And good for her. I pointed at the big hotel and promised her that next time we come back, we’ll be staying there instead. She nodded wisely.



Anyway, if you don’t have the coin, but want to feel like you are staying at a big fancy hotel, then staying in a guest house and just paying to enter for the day is a good way to do to. But next time I stay at a hotel, it won’t be on a pension budget.


The beach in the city

Naminoue Beach, the only beach within Naha city limits, is a small but very pleasant patch of sand to go stick your toes in. Situated beneath the scenic Naminoue Shrine, and unfortunately now located under a huge, concrete overpass, it is not a beach that has a good reputation. But hey, I will let you be the judge.


Pretty nice, right?

If you can mentally overlook the highway in front of your eyes, Naminoue Beach is actually really nice. And if you only have, say, only 24 hours, or a brief cruise ship stop in Naha, it is worth going to take a swim and relax.

Two Okinawan locals have told me that compared to beaches further up the island, or on other islands, Naminoue is considered pretty much the worst beach in Okinawa. I beg to differ though. The water was crystal clear, no pollution or junk floating around, and hey, ten minutes from my house… well that’s pretty hard to beat. It was a pleasant surprise, really, to find that there is such a thing as a clean city beach.

If you are staying in Naha and don’t drive (or don’t want to struggle to figure out the local buses), Naminoue is a great place to go soak up some sun, feel the sand between your toes, and have a cold beer as the sun sets. Plus, it’s walking distance to lots of hotels, near to the Fukushuen Gardens, and the city centre.


Please don’t go to this place

Under no circumstances should you go to this place, a tiny island off of Okinawa called Aka-Jima. Just trust me, don’t go. You won’t like it.


The environment there is so polluted and destroyed, it cannot support any true wildlife.


The food at the minshuku, or guest houses, is boring, bland and disgusting. You’re guaranteed to still be hungry after each meal.


There is nothing to see or do on the island, and very little local atmosphere.


And the worst part is, there are so many goddam tourists everywhere, you’ll feel like you’re on a beach in Phuket during Christmas. There is no escape from the crowds, you will regret ever going there.

Believe me, I wouldn’t lie to you.


But sarcastic jokes aside…. I was this close to not writing about the trip to Aka Jima, because I want it to stay the way it is: untouched, pristine, and most of all, QUIET. It’s one of the most unique places I’ve ever been to, and a true island paradise.

This tiny island in the Kerama Marine Park has only 300 human residents, and much more in terms of sea turtles and wild Kerama deer who roam the tiny streets. There is a string of tiny guest houses and dive shops along the beach front (the entire town only has three streets), and little else, other than two small supermarkets and two or three restaurants and cafes. At night the sky is so dark, you can see the satellites crossing the sky.

Just incredible. I didn’t want to leave. Every beach had amazing snorkelling, and one beach is home base for a big group of turtles who you are 100% guaranteed to see. One day after watching the turtles, we came back to the guest house and saw wild deer outside our door. And of course….. the blue. Kerama Blue, they call it. The unspoilt beauty of the clean, clear ocean. Ahh.

Yes, DON’T GO!!! In fact forget you read this. Don’t ever go!!


Yonabaru Giant Tug-of-War

We could hear the festival coming from a distance, starting with the low, mournful sound of huge conch shells being blown, somewhere up the street. Booooooo-eeeee. Booooo-eeeeee. The road had been closed off to vehicles, and a smallish crowd of people were on the sidewalk, waiting, and watching. Then we heard the drums and percussion, and saw them coming; the two teams, red and purple, who would vie that day to become the winner of the Giant Tug-of-War.

This part of the festival, the procession up the road before the battle, is called michijyune. The street filled with people dancing in traditional Okinawan yukata (robes), their hands moving in the air. In the crowd I could also see a handful of men in very elaborate kimono, representing previous kings from when Okinawa was the Kingdom of the Ryukyus.

Once the michijyune was over, the crowds all headed towards the field where the battle would take place. We found the teams laying the rope out on the road — it was massive! Apparently it weighs five tons. No wonder it takes dozens of people to carry and pull it.

The rope enters the field
The rope is so big, the Kings can stand on it
The two teams push one loop through the other using long sticks, and then a large pole is inserted to lock them in place. Only then do they drop the rope and start pulling

And then, BOOM. The rope fell to the ground, the kings standing on the rope almost tumbled off, and people exploded into action. The crowd swayed and moved to either join in or avoid the rope. The air filled with the sounds of people chanting hai-ya! hai-ya! But then, much to my surprise, the whole affair, the actual pulling, only lasted a minute and a half! The purple team took victory. Apparently the longest contest ever was only 15 minutes. But after such a lead up to the tug-of-war, it felt a bit…. anti-climatic!

However, the event was not done. The second tug-of-war, obviously designed to please the crowds, allowed families and small children to get in on the action. So we decided to join in too, from the very back of the rope, because with little kids it’s not so safe to get too close to where strong men are pulling with all their might. At the back of the rope, there are smaller sections to hold on to.

This little boy does not look so enthused
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Pull! PULL!

Boy did our hands hurt from all that pulling! The second tug-of-war took a bit longer, but the opposing team won. Afterwards we even took a bit of the rope home. Apparently it’s good luck to tie up a piece of the rope and take it with you after the event. I watched as the officiators took a mallet and break open a huge straw barrel of awamori (Okinawa liquor), so I guess it was party time.

The next tug-of-war takes place in Naha, but apparently attracts thousands and thousands of people. So if you are averse to crowds, then smaller events like the Yonabaru tug-of-war may be more your style!




Tomori Stone Lion

Tucked away on a hill overlooking the quiet agricultural town of Yaese, southern Okinawa, sits the island’s oldest, and perhaps most historically significant, shisa.

(Yes yes, ANOTHER post about shisa!! Sorry!)

Sometimes Google leads you on an accidental wild goose chase. In my search for information about the origins of shisa, I just happened to click on a black and white photo that piqued my interest. After reading a bit more about it, I decided it was worth a little day trip to check it out. With map in hand, we set out to find it.

This dear old shisa, with its friendly looking face and slightly goofy, perpetually grin, endured one of the fiercest gun fights during the Battle of Okinawa, and still has the bullet holes to prove it.


We attempted to recreate the battle scene. Not quite the right angle, but close enough, I guess!

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From the same spot today, you can see lots of farms, schools and villages, as well as a beautiful blue ocean in the distance. The scorched earth has also regrown and now has a beautiful big gajumaru tree.


There isn’t much to see in Yaese town, but it is worth visiting the Tomori Stone Lion if you happen to be in the area.

This one is waiting for the bus!



Legends of the Shisa

It’s only a few minutes away and I drive past it five days a week when I go to school in the morning – an uninteresting looking mound of green grass tucked away behind some yakiniku restaurants and a Family Mart. I had no idea that this tiny hill had such significance!


Everyone knows about shisa. They’re everywhere. They’re on top of houses, in front of banks, on the roof or entrance of every library and hospital and school. The protectors of properties and chasers away of bad spirits are the icon of Okinawa. And heavily branded too! T-shirts, souvenirs, posters, on the sides of buses, anywhere you could possibly use the image of a shisa, it’s there.

So, I started looking one day for information about the legend of the shisa. And during my search, from click to click to click, I just happened to find out that the real legend of the shisa starts right there on that lump of earth I drive by every day.

It’s called Gaanamui — Gaana Woods — and it’s where it all began.


Here’s the story, summarised. Long long ago, at Shuri Castle (yes, the same red castle in the previous post), the King of the Ryukyu Kingdom received a visitor from China, who brought with him a necklace which had a tiny stone lion-dog creature on it. The emissary tells the king that it is a protective amulet, and the king wears it under his robes.

Meanwhile, in the village of Madanbashi (my backyard!!), there is a dragon busy terrorising the residents, destroying their homes, and killing all in its way. The high priestess of the area has a vision that the King will use an amulet to scare away the dragon. She sends a young boy named Chiga to relay the message to the King.

The King goes to Madanbashi to see for himself the damage, and face the dragon. The dragon appears, and fearing for his life, the King pulls out the tiny shisa from around his neck, and holds it up to the dragon.

According to some versions of the story, the shisa amulet emits a fearsome roar that shakes the earth. A giant boulder flies up into the sky, and falls onto the dragon’s back. The dragon lays there, and slowly starves to death. And the dragon’s body is apparently what is under the Gaana Mui mound that sits there, so unassuming, on the side of the road today, next to the convenience store.

The villagers build a stone statue of the shisa to honour it, and the village was never terrorised again. That is why to this day, people use stone shisa for protection.

If you want to visit Gaana Mui, be aware that in the summer time the hill is FULL of very aggressive kamimaze cicadas who literally dive bomb you as you walk on the tiny path and scream in your ear. Seriously! So maybe summer time is not the best time to go, when cicadas are everywhere.

The path to the top – BEWARE OF INSANE CICADAS


Here’s the map:

Shuri Castle at Night

Every night, Naha’s most iconic castle gets illuminated after sunset, making its distinctive red colour even more striking.



Going to see Shuri Castle in the evening is a great way to beat the relentless heat of summer. Nowadays the sun doesn’t set until almost 8pm, so we got there around 7.30 and were pleasantly surprised to also find that there was almost nobody there. It was such a pleasure to be able to stroll around at our own pace, and take pictures that didn’t include the back of Chinese tourists’ heads.



Take note – some of the castle gates close at 8.30 or 9pm, but the iconic Shureimon main gate remains open. We had parked at the official castle parking lot, but that is only open until 9pm. If you want to stay longer to walk around or take pictures, I’d recommend parking at one of the many 24 hour coin parking lots, close to the castle entrance, and then walking to the castle grounds.

Churaumi Aquarium

It’s the third largest aquarium in the world and one of the top attractions for visitors in Okinawa. Located in the northern part of the island, the absolutely massive Ocean Expo Park is home to the Churaumi Aquarium, where you could spend hours walking through the various tanks and observation rooms, with tropical fish, giant lobsters, teeny tiny seahorses, and turtles.




But the real stars of the show are the whale sharks, and it’s easy to see why. They’re incredible, and huge. Watching them glide around the tank, flanked my stingrays, it’s really a majestic sight.


Um, yeah. I’m not sure what to say about this next picture. Did the designer not notice what this whale mouth resembles….?  The parents all had a good snicker, while the kids pretended to get swallowed by the beast.


Actually, I just learnt that I’ve actually seen the second biggest aquarium in the world, too, without even knowing it. The Dubai Mall aquarium is also massive. But I still think the whale sharks and cooler than a sunken Mini.

Dubai Aquarium
Dubai Mall aquarium, 2011


Break time

And so, the first semester of my Japanese course finished with a bang, as everyone struggled their way through the JLPT practice test on the very last day of class, before heading out for two weeks holiday. Although the last three months have been extremely intense in terms of learning and remembering SO many new words, phrases, grammar and kanji, the test was a reminder that we still have such a long, long way to go.

After the last day of school, I went with my wee family to the beach for an evening picnic, and who do I find there but my teachers! They were having a beach BBQ and there were LOTS of bottles and cans on the table. They obviously needed a much-deserved break too.

But, the brain is a muscle, and a lazy muscle at that. Stuff that you don’t use gets continuously deleted to make space for new stuff. So I promised myself I would study during the term break.

Sadly, I didn’t even open up my books during the first week of holidays, prefering instead to go out and have some fun. But this week, I’m exercising the brain again.


Above are some of the kanji we have to know how to write for class. These are the first ones that students learn — the numbers, days of the week, in, out, left, right, ocean, mountain, etc etc etc. They test us all the time, but I am trying to test myself at home and see how many I can remember. So far we’ve done just shy of 100 characters. Apparently in order to read a newspaper, you need to know more than 1,000!

Being unable to read is a source of incredible frustration for me. Take, for example, my recent adventures in recycling.


Every Friday, they pick up cardboard and paper. So I flattened the boxes, and tied them up with string. Then I came home to find this yellow rejection sticker on it. Out of the list of 10 possible mistakes I made, they had underlined what I’d done wrong. But of course, I can’t bloody ready the kanji.

So, I tried again the following week. I took off the string, and tied it up really tight, and put it on the curb for collection.

Again, yellow sticker. Rejection.

Finally, I took the yellow sticker to the local dollar store, and asked a friendly old lady who worked there if she could help. Her eyes lit up — she led me over to the aisle for packing, and showed me. I had been tying up the boxes with the wrong type of string. The white string is made out of plastic. I was supposed to be using brown paper string. Seriously! Ridiculous right?

I don’t have hopes to one day read a Japanese newspaper. But it would be nice to know how to read enough to deal with daily issues!



What what, in the butt?!

On Friday when I got home, I opened the kid’s backpack to find a little package with a cup, a tiny bottle, and some kind of blue round stickers on them, with the whole package to be returned to the school on Monday morning. Now what the f— is THIS I asked myself, for about the millionth time since moving here.

Ah yes… the adventures of raising a kid in Japan when you can’t read that much Japanese.

Every year, apparently Japanese schools send this little package home to test for parasites amongst kindergarten-aged kids. And I am writing this post SPECIFICALLY for parents in Japan who may one day find themselves like me, bewildered as to what to do, and looking frantically for instructions online and feeling totally frustrated. A quick search on Google showed me there are pretty much NO instructions in English, so, here it is. My gift to the gaijin parents in Japan, in detail, so that you don’t have to go and ask someone whether or not you need to poke your kid’s butt with a blue circle.

IF YOU DON’T WANT TO READ MORE ABOUT PEE AND POO AND BUTT TESTS, THEN DON’T SCROLL DOWN. If you are a desperate gaijin parent, keep reading.

  1. The Pee Test.   Pretty simple: catch the kid’s pee in a cup, and use the squirty bottle to suction up the pee, and put the bottle back in the bag.


  2. The Butt Test. I had no idea how this worked. I peered curiously at the package. Interesting pictures. And strange illustrations that did not help at all. What’s with the little angel squatting over the paper? My mind raced. What am I supposed to do? Do I have to……….. rub it on something? Stick a sticker on the butt? Wipe something on the blue sticker?


    Thankfully, a Japanese mom from the school who had lived abroad and spoke English came to my rescue. This is how it works.

    The butt test comes in two parts. The clear plastic sheet has two blue circles, for you to do two tests on two separate occasions. You should do the test before your kid does a Number Two. Early morning is apparently best, when parasites are most active. You take the plastic sheet, and poke the blue circle sort of onto/into the entrance of your kid’s butt hole. The squatting angel is supposed to show you a good position for your kid to get into in order to do the butt test.

    After doing both tests — on two separate occasions, don’t forget, not both on the same day — you peel off the top layer of the clear plastic sheet, and stick the two halves together.

    Once you’ve done the pee specimen and both butt tests and stuck the blue circles together, put it all back in the bag and give it back to the school.

This might just be the weirdest and most useless and most inappropriate post I’ve ever written. But if it helps even ONE parent in Japan get over a wave of anxiety and uncertainty at a moment when they feel totally alone and confused, then it’s worth it. Because there’s nothing I hate more than feeling like a moron because of the language barrier.

Those thinking of moving abroad, take heed. IT IS NOT EASY!!

But, as always, you get by with a little help from your friends. Even when it comes to what to do with butts.

Now, something to make you laugh.





The End of the Road

After arriving at Cape Hedo, the most northern tip of the long, scraggly island that is Okinawa, after being awed and amazed at the incredible natural landscape and beautiful scenery, you will no doubt look up, squint into the sun and say, ‘Wait…. What the f*** is that?’

I am referring to one of the weirdest things I’ve seen in Okinawa… or even all of Japan. A giant bird thing on the top of a mountain, that seems to be there for no particular reason at all.


Well… there is a reason, I suppose — the bird is a kuina, an endemic and endangered species of Okinawa, found only in the northern part of the island. So of course, we had to go see what this big bird was all about.

Look closely just to the left of the statue, and you’ll see the giant kuina on the hill top
If you walk up to the top, you get a great view of the Cape

Cape Hedo is literally the end of the road, as far as you can drive on the island. For us, coming from Naha in the south, it was a long drive of just over two hours. But totally worth it. The scenery is amazing, every turn reveals a sweeping bay of crashing waves and pristine water, and tiny traditional villages where the residents have the world record for longevity, thanks to their lifestyle and diet. From the cape we had a clear view of Yoron Island in the distance and nothing else but ocean as far as the eye could see.

Fantastic beauty
View from Kayauchi Bantaa
Classic shisa
Cobra crushed on the road!!  Even in Naha there are signs warning you about snakes while you are walking

With one road in and one road out, the northern tip of Okinawa feels like a step back in time, where tiny towns reveal what life used to be like, before the war, before Western influence. And indeed there is nothing much in this area — the expressway deposits you into the city of Nago and once you keep driving north it’s just fishing villages. It’s really a great escape and a good day trip.

Old village in Ogimi
Traditional architecture
Someone gave this shisa a raincoat – it is tsuyu  or rainy season in Okinawa.

Food wise, there is a restaurant at Cape Hedo serving some food, though everyone there was eating zenzai or ice cream. In Kunigami there is a great Michi no Eki or Roadside Station with a full restaurant serving local food. And Nago is full of restaurants. So even though you’re going to the end of the road, there are lots of yummy things to eat along the way.

Urasoe Castle

Okinawa is covered with castle ruins from north to south, with Shuri Castle being the biggest tourist attraction. We happen to live quite close to what was once the biggest castle on the island, a few hundred years ago. So it seemed worth a visit.

Urasoe Castle is just north of the capital city of Naha, and is also the final resting place of the three last Ryukyu kings. Not quite as impressive as other castles, such as Nakagusuku Ruins, it was still an interesting walk back in time.


Next to the castle ruins is the Urasoe Yodore, a tomb housing the remains of three rulers of the Ryukyu Kingdom, built in the 1200s. You are not allowed to cross the barrier to peek inside.


Even for a weekend, there was nobody there, and almost zero information in English. But as we returned to the parking lot and took a look at the historical information on the sign, an elderly gentleman came up and gave what turned out to be an incredibly detailed background to the area. To my husband, in Japanese, naturally. But he then shared the information with me.

I had to take a picture of what this historical site looked like after WWII. It never ceases to amaze me how much of Okinawa’s history was completely obliterated during the bombing of Japan. It is an incredible loss and one that people feel the world over with every war. No doubt people in Syria, for example, have a lot of mourn, as their history gets bombed into rubble.


Oh, bento!

I faced my first challenge as a wannabe Japanese mom the other day. It was obento day at school. For those who may be hearing the word ‘obento’ for the first time, it simply means a lunch box. But, in Japan, people take it to a whole new level.

Go in any dollar store, supermarket, or department store and there is always a massive obento section, full of various boxes, chopsticks, accessories, and super cute adornments for both inside and outside the box.

Japanese mamas have turned obento almost into an art form, with incredibly intricate designs (almost all edible) and creative designs. All this for KIDS! Small humans who will gladly eat what they find in their noses. Small humans who can laugh about the word ‘poop’ for a good five minutes.

But hey, when in Rome, do as the Romans.

So, I went to the 100¥ shop, and spent a ridiculous amount of time standing there, deciding what to buy to ‘decorate’ The Kid’s obento. Way too much time. Definitely a waste of time.

Then it was the question of what do I put inside? What would the other kids be eating? What would be suitable?

Finally I decided on a menu, and ta-daa! This is what it looked like:


I have to tell you a secret though — I totally cheated. I obviously didn’t bake the bread, but I also didn’t make the meatballs. Or the omelette. I bought them at the Family Mart (along with a 6-pack of beer. That was for me, not for The Kid. Because Bento Day is stressful. For me.) But I did steam the broccoli… I swear!

Anyway, Bento Day is once a month at school and apparently kids really love it. And they’re curious to see what the other kids have too. I’ll post pictures of Bento Version 2 in June.


Koinobori in Okinawa

There are flying fish all over Okinawa these days. And I don’t mean jumping out the water.

A national holiday called Children’s Day is just a few days away, and koinobori – carp windsocks – have been strung up across bridges, in people’s gardens, rooftops and balconies, and even in the schools. It’s a popular sight in Japan as the carp are bright and colourful, and you can buy them from the local dollar store, if that is all your budget allows (thanks, China).

Koinobori on our balcony

Yesterday I took some people from my Japanese school on a day trip to see a koinobori event at the Okinawa Peace Park, on the south coast of the island. And boy were we lucky! I had read that 20,000 koinobori had been strung around the park, and that one of them was 100 feet long. And as we arrived and ambled into the park, like the clueless gaijin we are, we got to witness the raising of the giant 100 foot carp, and it was truly impressive. A crane lifted it up into the air, and it only took a few seconds. I was so glad to have seen this moment.





Pretty cool, right?

So just what are koinobori about? Children’s Day used to be Boy’s Day, and the carp symbolised strength and courage because of its ability to swim up river against the raging tide. The koinobori represented a family’s hope that their sons would also be strong and healthy, like the carp. Families would hang the streamers outside their house, traditionally with a big black one on top (representing the father), then a red one (mother), and smaller ones (the kids).

Today Boy’s Day has just become Children’s Day, but the koinobori still remains a symbol of the day. At my daughter’s school, for example, they made an art project of koinobori, and there are two big ones hanging up in the gym. At the Peace Park, there were thousands of them that had been made by kids at the local schools.


Okinawa Peace Park has many monuments dedicated to the hundreds of thousands of people – both military and civilian, on both sides of the fight – who died during the Battle of Okinawa and WWII in general. Nestled atop a hill top, the park is huge, and has incredibly beautiful views of the coastline.




As always, it’s hard to imagine that this lovely island went through such dark days!

Urban hikes in Naha

Not too far from Shuri Castle, which sits atop the highest hill in Naha overlooking the port and the city, lies Sueyoshi Koen, a beautiful park with walking trails into the hills, and a small red temple that you can ‘hike’ to. I say hike because my 3-year-old did it with only the slightest whinging, so if she can get there, anyone can.


The entrance is between Gibo and Shintitsu Byoin Mae monorail stations, and next to a major highway, but once you park your car and walk into the park, you really forget that you are in the city. Lush greenery, rivers with fish, huge butterflies, flowers, and, apparently, lots of snakes!


From the car park you can see the red temple up in the hills — it looks far, but it only takes about 20 minutes from the parking area. The paved path ends and turn into a dirt foot trail so I’d wear decent shoes (i.e. not heels!) to get there.

On the foot trail you come across a tall stone marker. Turn there and follow the route up the hill. It’s just a slight incline.




Sueyoshi Temple is a place of worship and considered sacred ground, and according to a local guy who had helped us to find it, if you are not there to pray or make offerings, you should not approach the steps or walk up them. Also don’t make a lot of noise because people do go there to clean their family graves and pray. There was an old lady there reciting from prayers, and the old guy turned to me and said, ‘I have no idea what she is saying. She’s speaking the old Okinawa language. It’s not Japanese.’  So if you go, don’t forget this is a temple, and one should behave respectfully.


Room with a View

Now this I could get used to waking up to.


I confess, I did not grow up beach camping, despite spending the first two decades of my life on an island. In Trinidad we may have spent millions of hours on the beach, but it was 15 minutes from home so we never camped out. We went hiking many, many times, but never pitched a tent along the river and curried a duck. And on weekends we rented holiday homes, with air conditioning, ice machines, and hot showers, so were never ‘deprived’ of our creature comforts.

Despite my somewhat posh (spoilt?) upbringing, getting back to basics at the campground on Yagaji Beach proved to be great fun, and one night was not nearly enough. We packed up the tiny car to the brim, with our tent, fold-out mattresses, pillows, beach chairs and table, and set out from Naha early in the morning. By lunch time we were setting up shop under the trees and making ourselves at home. We had the entire beach to ourselves, other than one young family in a camper van, and some old ladies who came by at low tide to collect clams from the sand.

He is more useful than he looks.
Happy enough?

There is definitely something therapeutic about leaving your daily life behind and getting back to nature. Nothing to do but look out at the sea, feel the sun on your shoulders, and wiggle your toes in the sand. During the afternoon we walked across the spit of sand to the other island, dipped in the sea (a bit too chilly), harassed hermit crabs, and built sand castles. At night we lit a fire and cooked some food, cracked open some cold beers, and just listened to the ocean. We were all fast asleep by 9pm, with the cool sea breeze blowing through the tent.


Yagaji Beach does provide the basic comforts: clean toilets, hot showers, and even the ubiquitous Japanese vending machine if you suddenly need something like grape soda. Best of all, you can enjoy feeling like you are somewhere remote, but in fact be just five minutes from both a roadside station and a convenience store selling hot food and cold beer, and 15 minutes to the town of Nago, with a wide variety of restaurants and supermarkets. If you were super lazy, you could go to Yagaji and not take any food at all, because some onigiri and Orion beer is never far away.

(Note: Yagaji Campsite also has some bungalows for rent, with aircon, if camping is not your thing)

On day two, after packing up camp, we took a little drive to the nearby Kouri Jima, along an incredibly long and very beautiful bridge across a pristine turquoise sea. Most of this area remains very rural, with farm land and tractors. There are a few guest houses and cafes, but not much else. Nonetheless, a beautiful and scenic drive.



Beach camping I will definitely do again! And for much longer than one night. Okinawa is full of campsites so there is a lot more to explore.

Yagaji Beach requires reservations to be sure to call – don’t just show up.

Now THAT’S service

Gas stations in Japan are AMAZING.

When you start to pull into the station, immediately you will notice that two people run — not walk — RUN, over to where your car is pulling in.

They then guide you into the spot next to the pumps, and cover your side mirror with a little red sleevy thingy to show that they are attending to you.


After taking your request for gas, they then ask if they can please clean the front windshield and side mirrors for you. And if that wasn’t kind enough, they offer you a clean blue rag to wipe down your dashboard.

The best part? After all that, they then ask — so nicely!!! — if they can please, please relieve you of any errant garbage that you may have laying around in your car.

Can you imagine? A gas station attendant asking if they can please clean your car and get rid of your trash for you?

Good grief…… this is civilisation.

Sorry T&T… but you have such a long, long, looooonnnnng way to go in customer service.

This is what pumping gas is like in Trinidad:

Pull into gas station. All gas station attendants are either (1) sitting down on their fat asses doing f*ck all, or (2) liming and chatting with each other. You pull in, turn off the engine, pop open the gas tank, and then wait a few minutes. And a few minutes more. Said gas station attendants are laughing about something. Some perhaps on their phone, texting someone. They glance up and look at you, decide the text message they are reading is more interesting then you and more important than doing their job. Finally, FINALLY, one of them may get off said fat ass and come over to see what it is you want. By then you’re already frustrated, sighing, steupsing, cussing under your breath, wondering why the ass it takes so long just to fill up one tank of gas. Don’t even ask about how long it takes to pay for the gas.

And even worse — banks in T&T!!!  I would rather shoot myself in the eyeball than waste another hour of my life in a Trini bank!

The politeness and ultra-efficiency of Japan can be a bit tiring sometimes… and I imagine it is also tiring for the people running around doing their jobs super fast and super politely. It might be over the top and unnecessary and excessively polite….

…but still…. this is preferable to the awful service you receive in T&T!



Doggy on Duty

When we lived in the tiny town of Mui Wo, there was a dog that I smiled at every time it passed by. Not because I like dogs – on the contrary, I can’t stand them. But this mutt was special. This was a Doggy on Duty.

The dog lived with a local contractor who wore incredibly thick glasses and drove a tiny three-wheeled truck-like thing through the footpaths of the village, delivering bricks, concrete, wood, whatever construction materials were needed.

And wherever the contractor went, the dog went too, at a speed. While the other village dogs did nothing all day but lay about in the path, obstructing bicycles, the Dog on Duty ran, jumped and leaped up the path, following the contractor. You could see that this dog had a mission, this dog had something to do, a purpose. A job. A genuine enthusiasm for life.

I joked to my husband about a year ago that I wanted to be like that dog again. To have a clear mission. To have purpose. See, I have been a stay-at-home-mom since the day my kid entered the world. Three years of no work! Yes, yes, it is a full time job raising a kid. And a harder job than any I’ve had before. Although full time motherhood is fulfilling in certain ways, it is absolutely mind-numbing in other ways. I went from being a working girl in a nice fancy office with an interesting job to ‘just’ being mom, and it was quite an adjustment. With the endless routines of child rearing, story telling, potty training, cooking and cleaning, the days can feel so long, and boring, and I often found myself pondering deep questions, like ‘What is my purpose?’, ‘What do I want to do with my life?’ and ‘What am I going to do next?’

And now, the time has finally come to start getting some answers. A new phase in life begins. Because tomorrow, The Kid starts going to pre-K at a nearby international school, and is out of my hair for half the day. And I, too, start something new, for myself.

I have a new duty – to learn. I’m starting a full time Japanese course, with three hours a day of mental gymnastics as I try to learn and understand the mother tongue of my new home. Because there is no way you can survive in Japan without being able to communicate. It’s going to be hard, for sure, especially as the other students will be almost 10 years younger than me and infinitely faster at retaining new information. But it’s going to be good to work out the brain after three years of full time baby-care.

My kid is no longer a baby, she is growing up and moving into the phase of her life that revolves around school. And I need to figure out what kind of dog on duty I’m going to be, and what kind of work or job I will do next. But I have no doubt that learning Japanese is an important first step in figuring out what will be the next chapter in my own life.


Playtime, all the time

Okinawa is an amazing place to raise kids. Lots of room to stretch your legs, low density ‘cities’, no pollution, beaches, and above all, PARKS.

I don’t just mean a green patch of grass and a few benches. I’m talking giant parks, with trampolines, roller slides, jungle gyms, rope mazes, ziplines, and all kinds of excitement for kids.  No wonder the average family here has three kids, compared to Tokyo where the average is one, or, more recently, zero.

Mummy is clearly having fun too… maybe too much fun!
Is that enough slide for you? 
Dolphin Park in Nishihara
An essential in Okinawa and available in EVERY dollar store — the ‘slider’ to protect your butt from the roller slides

My kid keeps saying, ‘Okinawa parks are the best!’  And she should know — almost every day for two years we went faithfully to the same tiny, dingy, mosquito infested park in Mui Wo when we lived in Hong Kong. The ‘Fragrant Harbour’ is a place to work like a dog, make money, and party, not raise a child.

Okinawa in comparison is a giant kids playland, and without a doubt this is one of the best things about living here and raising a kid. What I like too is they allow kids to take risks, to learn about getting hurt, to understand gravity. In one park there was a vertical drop slide that in the US would be a million dollar lawsuit waiting to happen. But here, kids can be kids.

Learning the ropes at Yaeshima Park
Humungaloid trampoline park in Nakagusuku (and all the parents sheltering from the sun underneath)


Whenever we have nothing in particular to do, and especially when my husband is not around, we simply pull up Google Maps, zoom in a bit, and see which park we can go check out that day. And I’m sure there’s one for each day of the year.

April 1st just passed, which means the beaches are now open. I imagine this means that all summer we’ll be in the water rather than in the parks, perhaps. See? More fun for kids. Who needs Disneyland when you’ve got Okinawa?




Southern style

Far removed from the amusement-park feel of the areas surrounding the US bases and the relative hustle and bustle of the ‘bigger’ cities on the island, the southern part of Okinawa remains strangely, and pleasantly, rural. While the central area of the island is chock a block with giant Hiltons dominating the coastline, if you’re willing to take a little drive in the other direction (and get a bit lost), you find some surprisingly nice spots which you won’t have to share with the whole of Beijing.

We had read about a beach not far from home, and thus set forth to seek it out. The only problem was the GPS in the car couldn’t find it, and there were no signs for the beach. We did however come across a few signs on dirt paths saying that you cannot drive down because of unexploded mines left over from WWII!

Roadside vegetable stand, unattended. It operates on an honour system: you take whatever vegetables you want to buy, and leave the cash in the tin. Nobody steals the veggies, and nobody steals the money either. How’s that for public trust?
Still no beach! 

After stumbling through the farmland and sugar cane fields, finally my husband asked a farmer how to get there, and he pointed us in the right direction. Perhaps the locals like it that way – I’m sure they think, let all those tourists go up the 58 highway, and leave us in peace down here to fish, and farm, and live.

Can you see dad out there, trying to catch some fish?
Rock pools, plus, on the left, a tiny shrine where I’m assuming someone drowned

What I like about this place is that it is not a fake reclaimed beach which is so popular in Okinawa. This is a real, natural beach that the government so far has not gotten its paws on. There are no showers, no music playing, no BBQ pits. Just a natural, normal, authentic beach, with rock pools and hermit crabs and coral. Let’s hope it stays that way.